Questions & Answers
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The Day
What time should I arrive?
Arrive at 5:00 PM and be seated by 5:15 PM. The ceremony begins right after.
Are the ceremony and reception in the same place?
Yes. Both are at Hotel DuPont, so there’s no traveling between them.
Is it indoors or outdoors?
Indoors. No need to worry about the weather.
What time does it end?
Around 11:00 PM. There is no after-party.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
Please don’t. It’s an unplugged ceremony: phones and cameras stay put away unless we invite you to take them out. We want to share the moment with you, and our photographer needs a clear view.
Should I find the couple to say goodbye?
No need. After the toasts, skip the goodbyes and join us on the dance floor.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes.
Can I request a song?
Yes. Tell us on your RSVP which song gets you dancing.
What to Wear
What is the dress code?
White Tie Optional: our most formal, elegant evening.
What does that mean for men?
- A classic black tuxedo is perfect.
- A tailcoat with white waistcoat and white bow tie is welcome, not required.
- Black dress shoes.
What does that mean for women?
- A floor-length evening gown.
- Glamorous, sophisticated accessories are encouraged.
I don’t own a tuxedo. What should I do?
Rent one, and start early. Most rental shops and online services need a few weeks to fit you.
What’s the weather like?
Early March in Wilmington is cold. Bring a wrap or overcoat for arriving.
Guests and RSVP
When do I need to RSVP?
By December 14, 2026, on our RSVP page.
How do I RSVP?
Tap RSVP, search for your name, confirm who’s coming, and tell us about any dietary needs. It takes about two minutes.
Can I change my RSVP?
Yes. Go back to the RSVP page and update it before December 14, 2026.
Can I bring a date or plus-one?
Please attend with the guests named on your invitation. If you have a plus-one, it will show on your invitation and RSVP.
Are kids welcome?
We love your little ones, but this is an adults-only celebration.
What if I have dietary restrictions or allergies?
Tell us on your RSVP and we’ll take care of it.
What if I can’t make it?
Please still reply “no” by December 14, 2026 so we can plan. We’ll miss you.
Travel and Hotels
Do I need to book a hotel room?
Yes, please. Book in our Hotel DuPont block as soon as you RSVP. Rooms are limited and the block closes before the wedding.
How do I book?
Tap “Book your room” on our Travel & Stay page. Booking by phone? Give the group code DAROWE032027.
What if the block is full?
Book Staybridge Suites Wilmington Downtown, a short walk away, or see more hotels on our Travel & Stay page.
Where can I park?
- Valet parking at Hotel DuPont
- Street parking nearby
- A garage within walking distance
Allow extra time.
How do I get to Wilmington?
Fly into Philadelphia International, take Amtrak to Wilmington Station, or drive in on I-95. Details are on Travel & Stay.
Is the venue accessible?
Please contact our planners at Just in Time Events and they’ll make sure you’re comfortable: justintimeeventsnj@gmail.com.
Gifts and Contact
Where are you registered?
On Zola. Visit our Registry page for gifts, our honeymoon fund, and our first home fund.
Should I bring a gift to the wedding?
Please have it shipped through the registry, so you don’t have to carry it to the hotel.
Who do I contact with other questions?
Our planners at Just in Time Events: justintimeeventsnj@gmail.com.